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Jul162010

Fire as a Metaphor for Conflict

The image and concept of fire presents a useful frame in which to view conflict. Initially fire presents an obvious representation of conflict’s undesirable side: frustration, war, annoyance, fight, pain, difficulty, fear, heat, and loss. At the very least, through the process of exploring our immediate associations with conflict, we discover that we have all experienced conflict in our lives and that it is inevitable, just like fire. However, if we explore the metaphor further, we find that like conflict, fire has the potential for destruction but also for opportunity.

The most crucial aspect of dealing with conflict, and with fire, is one's attitude. If we see conflict as something bad, when it surfaces we run or fight. When we allow the view of conflict as inevitable with the potential for destruction and growth, then we discover that we have choices.

We learn about the dynamics of fire and what is needed to sustain and extinguish a fire. Some fires benefit from water (electrical) while others die when doused with water. Sometimes smothering a fire is advisable. At other times, an exterior substance must be applied, such as spraying with chemicals. As we discover the dynamics of conflict we also discover the different ways that we can engage in conflict. Sometimes we need a decision made that will provide direction for the community. At other times, allowing disputants with long standing relationships to work things out on their own is important. Moreover, at other times an immediate response is necessary.

In forests where fire is left to occur naturally it keeps the forest floor free of materials that cause destructive forest fires. When we overprotect our forests and prevent fire from doing its job, our forests burn to the ground. In addition, burning leaves behind the ability for new growth to occur unhindered by tangled undergrowth. It has been said that the hottest fire makes the strongest steel. In the same way, a healthy experience of conflict can be the means by which unhealthy factors in a relationship or project can be removed. Then new and stronger ideas and characteristics can emerge.

Uncontrolled fire is undesirable fire that benefits no one and endangers everyone. Uncontrolled conflict is undesirable conflict that benefits no one and damages everyone involved. As with using controlled fire as a tool, great care must be exercised to control conflict. Emotions must be held under strict control and the interaction must not become personal. Like fire, the conflict must remain focused on the proper object (the situation needing change) and not the people involved in the change process. Burning underbrush is desirable; burning the person using the fire is not. By knowing how to extinguish the fire, and the conflict, and by building strict barriers to guide the fire, and the conflict, the greatest benefit can be achieved by both.

Developing the ability to deal with conflict is crucial. If one's attitude allows for the possibility of constructive conflict, then the prospect of conflict can be anticipated and not loathed. We must remember that conflict is similar to fire. It is inevitable but possesses the potential for positive and negative results. Only you can prevent (uncontrolled) forest fires!

 

Wednesday
Jul142010

Community Back-to-School Carnival

Saturday July 31, join us for a Community Back-to-School Carnival at the Denmark-West Community Center, located at 535 Denmark-Jackson Road, just past the McKellar-Sipes Regional Airport (click the link above for an interactive map). From 10 AM to 4 PM we will have FREE food, games, giveaways, inflatible jumpers, a dunk booth, a climbing wall, face painting, balloon animals, and more. There will be information tables from Denmark Elementary School, West Middle School, Denmark-West Head Start, and the West TN Healthcare Foundation's TenderCare Program. Bring the entire family and begin the new school year with a great day of food and fun! This is a FREE community event sponsored by Ararat Baptist Church of Jackson, Tennessee. For more information, follow the above links, visit our web site, or call 731-424-2529. Also, check out our Facebook event page here and RSVP.

 

 

 

Friday
Jul022010

The Benefit of Social Media in Ministry

Social Media are taking the world by storm. We increasingly connect with others electronically more than through any other medium. Should churches and ministries utilize this new phenomenon? Does it at least demand serious investigation?

Social media isn’t really new. While it has only recently become part of mainstream culture and the business world, people have been using digital media for networking, socializing and information gathering – almost exactly like now – for over 30 years.

The original social media network is called the telephone. Other methods of social networking through the 1970's and 1980's included several attempts at chat rooms, podcasts via voicemail, and electronic bulletin board systems. Social networking as we know it today began when the world wide web became publicly available on August 6, 1991. By the late 1990's, internet forums grew in popularity and began replacing the old systems. The first social networking website was SixDegrees, which let people make profiles and connect with friends in 1997. This kind of interactive, social web application style became popularly known as “Web 2.0” and it really gained momentum with Friendster around 2002-3, followed by MySpace (2004 – 2006) and then Facebook (2007 -> ). The big trend on the web is moving away from static “pages” and into real-time stream of status updates on what is hot and happening right now. The most popular mediums capitalizing on this demand are Twitter and Facebook. Although is trails in actual use, Twitter has caught up with Facebook in awareness and brand recognition.

The significant problems that arise in the realm of social media are human. For example, with this great new way to express oneself, users can at times post things they would not share on reflection. Social media is a public forum, and anything shared is potentially shared not only with one's friends, but with the entire planet. Therefore, expressing one's dissatisfaction with one's employer via social media is a good way to end your employment in a matter of hours. a good rule of thumb is if you would not print it on a billboard, do not post it via social media.

Another problem arises with the sheer number of social media outlets available. If you sign up even a handful of social networks and web services — think Gmail, Twitter, Facebook, and LinkedIn — you've got multiple lists of contacts to manage in each place. Most of these services let you import contacts from at least two of the others, and even do repeat imports to find friends who've recently signed up for a service you've used for a while. However, you get the most out of each of these social tools when you take the time to groom your contacts, organizing them around different contexts and scaling your level of contact to the closeness of your relationship. But there is no way to keep your Twitter lists in sync with your Facebook lists, or to create LinkedIn relationships that reflect your contact organization in Gmail. With so many networks and contacts to keep organized, the experience becomes less than satisfying and even burdensome. Information overload is a common problem.

Today we're more likely to be drowned in a river of feeds, not to mention e-mail, texts, updates, voicemail, and the phone. There are great tools for creating, finding, organizing and viewing content, but very little to help thin out and manage the volume of information that now flows online. The challenge of information overload and attention management isn't just a technical problem, it is a human problem.

Despite the inherent problems in using social media, it has taken the world by storm. "A recent study surveyed just over 1000 Americans and asked questions such as when, where, and how much time they spend on sites and services like Facebook and Twitter. It turns out that many of us are obsessed.

Not only do we check Facebook and Twitter throughout the day, almost half of the respondents said they check in on the social media scene in bed, during the night, or as soon as they wake up in the morning. And no big surprise here: users under the age of 25 tweet more at night than older users" (Dyer, 2010, ¶3).

Recently, Starbucks® used social media to attract customers in a very successful advertising campaign. Starbucks’s Vice President of Brand, Content and Online, (Van Grove, 2010) revealed that "last year’s Free Pastry Day was a whopping success, driving more than one million people to stores" (¶1).

The Free Pastry Day promotion offered via Twitter and Facebook a free pastry alongside the purchase of any beverage until 10:30am local time. Activity on social media sites like Twitter and Facebook became electric on the day of the event as the free pastry news spread in digital form. Starbucks credits fans with the idea to use social media to drive new business (Van Grove, 2010). Starbucks also "speaks to the success of the company’s Tax Day green initiative to get customers to bring in their own tumblers in exchange for free coffee, which — like Free Pastry Day — was primarily promoted online via their Facebook Page" (Van Grove, 2010 ¶3). "Right now there’s no big brand better embracing social media than Starbucks. The coffee retailer has managed to dominate on Facebook, made news as the first company to offer a nationwide Foursquare deal, and was selected to try out Twitter’s Promoted Tweets ad platform before other advertisers will have the chance" (Van Grove, 2010, ¶ 4).

Currently, Facebook leads the way as the preferred medium of sharing information with our social network (Carlson and Angelova, 2009). In fact, with 400 million users, Facebook boasts more users than some countries' population (Zuckerberg, February 4, 2010, ¶1).

Twitter is not far behind. A recent study captured and articulated the popularity of Twitter in the United States. Edison Research and Arbitron Internet recently surveyed 1,753 Americans age 12 and over to reveal the people using Twitter and defining a new era of communication. They found that the social media giant can boast 17 million users in the United States alone (Edison 2010). With growing use and popularity, social media is here to stay. As a technologically savvy population increasingly turns to the internet for news, research, and information, the use and proliferation of social media will undoubtedly continue to skyrocket.

In fact, according to journalist Stephanie Gleason (2010), “Social media’s prominence has led many news organizations to hire social media editors, full-time staff members – sometimes several full-time staff members – completely dedicated to the rapidly growing phenomenon” (p. 6). These new managers of “citizen journalism” (Gleason, 2010, p. 6) monitor social media for news tips and trends of interest to users, making sure that traditional news reporters are abreast of current happenings of interest. They also provide news bits via social media outlets that direct interested readers to their news outlets for more information. The secular world of news and media has jumped into social media with both feet and plans to stay.

SOCIAL MEDIA IN MINISTRY

Christian author, researcher, church-planter, and social media mogul Ed Stetzer (2010) sees four distinct benefits of social media to ministry:

  • Social media assist in community. “Social media itself cannot create enough community for us to live as God intends, but they can be a part of it” (¶2). Virtual community and real community are not at odds with each other. They should be and can be friends, virtual helping the real. Social media can connect people in ways that allow them to share over issues large and small. Many times people will share over social media aspects of their life they would not share otherwise. This allows friends to share that part of life with inspiration and encouragement.
  • Social media assist in communication. In this age many reply on electronic communication over other forms of communication. Better still, these forms of communication follow us around, and cannot be forgotten or misplaced.
  • Social media assist in inspiration. While many choose to share only the mundane via social media outlets, others are choosing to share valuable theological, classical, Scriptural, and read-worthy information. “Therefore, this medium can serve as a means of introducing participants to theologians, pastors, writers, musicians, books, conferences, and so on” (¶6).
  • Social media allow better introductions. “Admittedly, people who use social networking choose to share more of themselves. However, in doing so, they have the opportunity to show the work of the gospel in their thinking, family, and lives” (¶7).

Southern Baptist seminary president and theologian Albert Mohler (2010) writes, “In 1 Peter 3:15, the faithful Christian is described as “always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you.” Christians must be engaged in the public conversation that goes on all around us. Like the old media of print and airwaves, the new media demand our attention — not just because they are the conduits of what is new, interesting, and entertaining — but because these are the media currently shaping the minds around us, igniting the interest of the public, establishing what our friends, neighbors, and fellow citizens understand as reality” (¶9).

Missionary Karl Dahlfred (June 4, 2010) agrees. On his blog post, entitled “Should Missionaries use Facebook and Twitter?”, he gives similar reasoning for why social media can be beneficial, including increased communication with one’s support base and potential supporters. For a missionary living abroad, the quick and easy communication social media provides can be invaluable.

Conclusions

Based on the analysis of social media and its current successful uses in secular venues as well as some Christian ministries, the following conclusions are observed:

  1. Social media are the fastest-growing new avenue of communication in the world today.
  2. In a new era of global communication, people are connecting electronically more than ever before.
  3. The costs of using social media are practically negligible.
  4. Social media are already being used in various ministries with great success.

On the basis of these findings, the author recommends that local churches and Christian ministries investigate and utilize social media to enhance their ministry communication and productivity.

Sources:

Dyer, P. (March 21, 2010). We’re addicted to social networks: 48% of us check them in bed. Pamorama.net. Retrieved from http://www.pamorama.net/2010/03/21/were-addicted-to-social-networks-48-of-us-check-them-in-bed  

Starbucks used social media to get one million to stores in one day. (2010, June 8). Mashable.com. Retrieved from http://mashable.com/2010/06/08/starbucks-mashable-summit/

Carlson, N. & Angelova, K. (July 21, 2009). Chart of the day: How people share content on the web. Business Insider. Retrieved from http://www.businessinsider.com/chart-of-the-day-social-networking-sites-dominate-sharing-2009-7

Zuckerberg, M. (2010, February 4). Six years of making connections. Facebook Blog. Message posted to http://blog.facebook.com/blog.php?post=287542162130 

Edison Research. (2010, April 29). Twitter usage in America: 2010. Retrieved from http://www.edisonresearch.com/twitter_usage_2010.php  

Gleason, S. (2010 Spring). Harnessing social media: News outlets are assigning staffers to focus on networking. American Journalism Review, 32.1, p. 6-7. 

Stetzer, E. (2010, June 1). The blessings of the new media. Tabletalk Magazine. Retrieved from http://www.ligonier.org/learn/articles/blessings-new-media/

Mohler, A. (2010, June 1). After the revolution. Tabletalk Magazine. Retrieved from http://www.ligonier.org/learn/articles/after-revolution/

Dahlfred, K. & S. (2010, June 4). Should missionaries use Facebook and Twitter? Dahlfred.com. Message posted to http://dahlfred.com/en/blogs/gleanings-from-the-field/351-should-missionaries-use-facebook-and-twitter

 

Wednesday
Jun232010

Ararat Baptist Church's Truck Stop Ministry

Ararat Baptist Church has been designated as this week's Church of the Week by the Christian Broadcasting Network for our Truck Stop Ministry. This ministry has been going continuously as a ministry of the church for 13 years. Watch the video below or go to the direct link here.

 

Wednesday
Jun232010

Responsible Leadership

"Therefore, whatever you want others to do for you, do also the same for them—this is the Law and the Prophets." Matthew 7:12 (HCSB)

1. Should limits/restrictions be placed on lifestyle choices and resource usage in third-world countries who are becoming technologically advanced while simultaneously growing in population?
2. What kind of example are we showing as Americans (specifically as Christians in America) with our lifestyle choices of natural resource usage to the rest of the world?

Everyone knows the epitome of bad parenting is the statement, "Do as I say, not as I do". It is the height of hypocrisy to direct others to actions that we are unwilling to undertake. It is also hypocritical to pay lip service to what we say is important, but not follow through with actions to back up our words. Jesus said, "But why do you call Me ‘Lord, Lord,’ and not do the things which I say?" Luke 6:46 (HCSB). He then goes on to share the parable of the houses built on rocks and sand. A wise person not only hears and understands, but takes the appropriate actions. This is the person who builds his house on the rock. A foolish person hears and understands, but chooses to do as he pleases regardless. This is the person who builds his house on sand.

For generations America has chosen to build her house on the sand of growing ecological disaster. I gratefully acknowledge that the United States has taken great strides toward a more environmentally friendly national posture. However, much remains to be accomplished. How can we play the part of global police and direct others to act, when we ourselves have acted just as bad in the past? Developing countries are growing through the same issues that we dealt with a generation ago, and are causing the same environmental damage that we did. I agree that we can provide valuable assistance and knowledge to these countries; knowledge we have learned through many mistakes. Some limits on how developing countries use natural resources are needed and desirable in my opinion. I'm sure those countries would have opposite opinions. In fact, most of those countries probably resent the United States trying to be the world police over so many issues. But before we will gain any legitimacy before the world regarding the environment, we must do more to clean up our act environmentally.

Christians that are serious about stewardship must lead the way. We must educate believers, and the entire population, to environmental dangers and practical solutions. WWJD? What Would Jesus Do? What would He do regarding environmental issues? What would He do regarding stewardship of His creation? What would Jesus drive? A gas-guzzling SUV? A foreign-made economy car? What lifestyle choices would he make to protect the environment? How does Jesus view our use of natural resources?

I never liked the WWJD fad. It is impractical. Often Jesus would do something that I could never do. He is the Son of God; I am not. We should instead ask, "What Would Jesus Have Me Do?" This is a question we should apply to every facet of our lives, including stewardship of the environment.